My love for Advent is steeped in the family traditions of my youth. Annual outings, rituals, the inner warmth of our home protected from the growing darkness and cold of winter all gave a glow to the season. Church rituals have been less meaningful for me, perhaps because I inherited practices already in place at churches I served, and where those communities didn't feel inclined to revisit those choices. (Let me say that there wasn't anything wrong with them, but shaping them to add meaning for me wasn't an option).
So, five things...
1) Sharing. Whether it was the creation of the family Christmas card, writing the family letter, helping mom with her homemade goodies of toffee and spiced tea, or singing Christmas carols outside the homes of friends, we spent family time engaged in activities that connected us to other people.
2) As an maturing Christian who shifted from Quaker to Episcopalian in my late twenties, Advent hymns became precious to me. I especially loved hearing them played from the carillon of the chapel at the college just up the hill from my first home.
3) The Advent calendar. I don't remember the practice of using a calendar being a spiritual one, but it nonetheless instilled an awareness that we were in a season of marking a journey, and waiting with anticipation. This annual ritual made it so much easier to live into the spiritual practice of waiting when my faith began to bloom.
4) Purple.
5) Decorations. My mother chose a seasonal theme each year as a way to focus the decorations of our home. The ones that stand out in my memory are the Magi, Peace, Joy, music, and the Twelve Days of Christmas. Except, perhaps, for the "12 days," these themes emphasized the spirit of the season, instilling in me an abiding appreciation in my bones for the depth and meaning of what I would come to know as the Incarnation. Little did she know that she was planting seeds...
3 comments:
Inheriting traditions...I get that...especially in the church. (And not being in a position to change them.)
My mom was a baker...fun times and she loved sharing her baked gifts.
And of course since I used to blog under "Purple"...your #4 is spot on.
~~Elaine
I'm on the worship team at church & our current rector is helping us shape some meaningful Advent practices, since our church didn't really have anything in place. It's really special - but I always miss at least one of the Sundays because of travel to visit families. Sometimes I miss two! Very annoying, but not going to change as long as our fathers are with us, so I'm not going to complain too much...
I didn't mention my home traditions, but doing the Advent candles and calendar with my children is one of my favorite things.
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